Need some Ideas on where to take dates around town? Read on!
I’ve been talking with friends around town about their dating stories and it’s clear to me that some people just don’t know how to date or know where to go on good dates in Phoenix. It’s not that they aren’t good people or good catches. It’s the fact that some people simply are not educated on how to properly date a member of the opposite sex (this applies to men and women).
This is the first article in a dating series that gives people a list of current ideas on where to take dates. One of the first things that needs to be learned when it comes to dating is where to take your date and where not to take your date out for a few hours. If you think the classic ‘Dinner and…’ dates are appropriate (Dinner and Dancing, Dinner and a Movie, Dinner and Drinks, etc) for say the first few dates, adjustments to your dating habits is probably what’s needed. Hopefully, this list can help!
Without further delay, here’s the list (in no particular order)….
- Biking/Walking/Rollerblading – With so many miles of paths (paved or not) and Canals that criss-cross the greater Phoenix Area, it’s really easy to plot out a date to a great destination no matter what the length of the trip may be. While you’re out, there’s lots of time to talk and enjoy the weather (when it’s under 100 degrees). This includes Rollerblading/Walking/Biking in places like the Scottsdale Greenbelt or around Tempe Town Lake.
- Outdoor Cultural Festivals – Now that we’re on the tail end of the blazing summer heat, the weekends will soon be packed with Cultural Festivals, most of which will be free. These events include Tempe Oktoberfest, the Tempe Festival of the Arts, and the Arizona Aloha Festival. We will have up to date lists of all the Cultural events on the main AZ Vibe site as summer turns into Fall.
- Salsa/Swing Dancing (the ones that have lessons before dancing) – These are one of the best places for dates as it’s a great way to not only socialize but interact and see if you can communicate well with your date while dancing. If you’ve never taken any dancing lessons, that’s even better for both parties as it will be a great lesson on how the two of you can work together to learn a dance step or two. An example of a great place to go is the new Salsa Lessons/Dancing night at Camarone’s in the Westgate City Center (Glendale). $10 cover and the first 50 ladies get in for free. Dress Code is enforced.
- Desert Botanical Gardens – Without a doubt, this is one of the best kept secrets for dating in the Phoenix area. The Desert Botanical Gardens is a great destination for a date during the day time (when it’s not hot enough to quickly cook bacon and eggs in the summer heat). In addition, during the Summer evenings is the amazing ‘Garden Flashlight Tours’. During the Flashlight Tours you get the chance to see the desert flora and fauna adjust from the daylight to the nighttime in an up close and personal setting. This is a great educational experience AND there are plenty of chances to talk and connect in between the different areas and stations on the Flashlight Tours.
- First Friday’s in Downtown Phoenix/Thursday Art Walks in Scottsdale – Art walks are a perfect destination for those of you who are on tight budgets. Not only do you have lots of time to talk but you also can get into some potentially great discussions about art, your date’s philosophies, and whatnot.
- Phoenix Art Museum/Heard Museum/Arizona Science Center – In regards to the Art Museums, much of what applies for #5, applies here. The Phoenix Art Museum and the Heard Museum are two great cultural destinations with some amazing and educational displays for all to witness. In regards to the Arizona Science Center, you have the opportunity to let your proverbial hair down and be goofy with some of the exhibits (and to see if your date can let their proverbial hair down as well). Note for the budget conscious: Admission to the Phoenix Art Museum on First Friday and every Wednesday are on a donation basis (essentially free). The Heard Museum is free every third Friday for NU and every second Sunday for Arizona residents only.
- Miniature Golf – Indoor and Outdoor – Another destination for the budget conscious, miniature golf is a great way to get the competitive juices flowing, while chatting and having fun. Plus it’s also fun to make fun bets per hole or per game….like a bet for a second date.
- Picnic in a Park – Probably not the best idea for a first date but if you are really clicking with someone, this is a great way to make an impression. Lots of time to chat and it’s even better if you make the picnic a surprise.
- Phoenix Mercury/Phoenix Coyotes/Arizona Diamondbacks Games – Heading to sporting events, if your date is indeed into sports, is a great way to spend a first or second date. You can sit, chat and, if the noise level isn’t too loud, have a great conversation as well as some fun! However, make sure that you or your date are not hard core fans of any of these teams. Find a sport that none of you know about and don’t have emotional investment in. You don’t want your date to see you if your team loses because of a blown call or play now, do you?
Note: I didn’t include the Phoenix Suns and Arizona Cardinals here because, as of press time, the Suns don’t have their ticket pricing up for next season and the Arizona Cardinals tickets are out of the range for what we consider appropriate spending for the first few dates.
- Hiking – If you and your date are the active types, leveraging the Phoenix area’s many nearby hiking trails is a great way to spend a date. You can talk while you hike to your destination and have a great time. Remember: Make sure that you and your date are prepared for hiking when it’s hot out with these rules!!!

Honorable mention
Wine Tasting – The greater Phoenix area is blessed with so many tasting rooms it’s hard not to leverage them for a date. Many of these tasting rooms have great deals on wine tastings and it’s a great way to spend time getting to know the person you are dating in an relaxed setting.
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This article isn’t meant to be ‘the’ list of places that everyone should take dates to. These are just ideas, in no particular order, which hopefully can help you break out of the boring date destination mindset and increase your odds of making a match with your date.
Make sure you always scout your date locations ahead of time and have a backup plan in case of weather or other last minute changes!
Who knows? Perhaps this list will help you find that special someone.
Next week at this time, we will have an article about the worst places to take a date in Phoenix.
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